7 Tested And Working Steps To Make Every Man Last Long In Bed


You’ve tried crunching baseball stats. You’ve mentally replayed your last round of golf. You’ve outlined the steps to making your favorite sandwich. But the more you try to last longer in bed, the faster you finish—and you’re not alone.

“Premature ejaculation is a problem that affects almost every man at some point in his life,” says Thomas J. Walsh, M.D., a urologist at the University of Washington. Dr. Walsh says there are primarily two methods if you want to last longer in bed: physical and psychological treatments. While physical remedies target the sensations you feel during sekx, psychological solutions address your worry, stress, or other mental factors that may explain your quick trigger, Dr. Walsh explains.
Just remember that duration isn’t the most important part of the formula for having great sekx.

Here, Dr. Walsh and other experts break down a few of the most helpful techniques for dealing with premature eja.culation (PE).

But be warned: Dr. Walsh recommends trying these out on your own before attempting them during sekx.

(Plus, for more ways to kick your pleasure into overdrive, use these 8 Tricks to Make Your Org.asms Even BETTER.)

1. Biofeedback

In general terms, this refers to the idea that you can regulate your own neurophysiology—or the way your body responds to physical sensations, Dr. Walsh explains.

While there are a lot of different types of biofeedback, he says one of the most common for lasting longer in bed is to bring yourself right to the edge of org.asm before stopping all sekxual or masturbator.y activity until you have your excitement under control.

Also known as “edging”—one of the 5 Off-Beat Sekx Trends to Try—practicing this technique can help you teach your brain and body to better control your org.asm response, adds sekx therapist Emily Morse, Ph.D.

Just be sure to use a lot of lotion or lube  while you practice edging to avoid chaffing yourself, she advises.

2. The Squeeze

If you can feel your org.asm coming on, stop and squeeze right below the head of your pen!s. Apply firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger and focus the pressure on the urethra—the tube running along the underside of the pen!s, advises Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a sex therapist and author of She Comes First.
The squeeze technique can help yop last longer in bed by pushing blood out of the pen!s and momentarily decreasing sekxual tension, which represses the ejaculator.y response, Kerner says.

“This is another type of biofeedback, similar to edging.” Dr. Walsh adds.


3. Ladies First

When you help her finish first—whether with your mouth, your fingers, or a toy—knowing she’s enjoyed an org.asm may relieve some of the pressure you’re feeling to last longer in bed, Kerner says.

4. De-Sensitizers

Like the stuff dentists slather on your gums before jamming in the needle, there are topical sprays called “local anesthetics” that you can apply to your penis to lessen the sensation and keep control, Dr. Walsh says. “When used properly, you can adjust the amount of desensitization with these sprays, and it won’t transfer to your partner,” he adds.


He says some of his patients have had luck with a product called Promescent. (Dr. Walsh is in no way affiliated with the company that makes this product.)

But be warned: The lack of sensation could make it difficult for you to stay erecct, he says.


5. Cond0m Control

Most major cond0m manufacturers make extra-thick rubbers that act like a slip-on desensitizer for your member, Morse says, and these can help you last longer in bed.

Look for marketing lingo like “extended pleasure” or “performax” , which are fancy terms for this thicker style of cond0m.

6. Pills

Plenty of men pop a pill to become erecct. And in Europe, there are also legal drugs that can help you last longer in bed, Dr. Walsh says.

The problem: The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) hasn’t approved those drugs to treat PE in the U.S. Why?

“Even though trials show these drugs genuinely benefitted men with premature ejaculatiion, the FDA sets a very high bar for drugs used to treat non-life threatening conditions,” Dr. Walsh explains.

While you could take these drugs for “off-label” uses like the treatment of PE, most of these meds are antidepressants that could lead to mood changes or other side effects—meaning they shouldn’t be used unless your performance problem is seriously affecting your life, Dr. Walsh says. He advises talking to your doctor to discuss this option.

7. Ask an Expert

If you feel like you’ve tried everything to have better sekx without success, it may be time to discuss your problem with a sekxual dysfunction specialist, Dr. Walsh says.

“A lot of the treatments we’ve already discussed—edging and biofeedback—are pretty challenging techniques that a specialist can help you use effectively.”

He recommends asking your doctor for a referral to a urologist, who can either treat you himself or refer you to the right person for your problem.

“He or she will help you approach this practically and pragmatically,” Dr. Walsh says, adding, “It’s not about getting in touch with your inner self. It’s about learning the physical or mental mechanisms that can help you avoid premature ejaculatiion.”

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